Merry Christmas

Now that the Christmas madness is over and done with lets recap. First off, how was everyone’s Christmas? Let me know in the comments!

I’m just gonna write a little bit of what happened on my holidays.

Dec 24th, 2014 – I think I previously wrote that I go to my dad’s house and spend the eve with him. We went up there pretty early but it’s alright we got to spend some time with them before all the people came over. At one point my boyfriend and my dad went upstairs to have naps – I’m dating my father – it was pretty funny but the girls stayed downstairs, had shots and cheers to having great sex in the future! We woke up the boys about an hour later because we wanted to open our gifts, at this point I felt really bad for my boyfriend because there was pretty much nothing for him and he was bored. I knew at my mum’s house he would have a lot more gifts and stuff he would like. Anyways, we opened the gifts and people started to come over, it was just some family friends and people they work with, we all had some food and talked in the kitchen – kitchen party as my family calls it. The weather was starting to get bad, my sister and my bestfriend had a long drive back home and my boyfriend and I had a long drive to his mother’s house to open gifts there. When we got there we had to wait for the rest of the family but it wasn’t that long of a wait. We opened our gifts and went on with our day.

Dec 25th, 2014 – For the past couple of weeks I haven’t been able to sleep, I always wake up at 5am and just end up sitting there. Since it was Christmas I was hoping my sister would wake up at that time but she didn’t; which is weird since she normally does. We got up and opened gifts, we got spoiled that’s for sure. After all the excitement settled down we all went a did our own thing for a couple hours before the madness started up again, I took a nap. My boyfriend came over because we had to go to his mum’s house for Christmas lunch, we walked in the door and started eating right away, we weren’t there for long but that’s how the family works. We headed back to my house where my family was there now, we ate dinner, had desert and my uncle who I hate came over. I won’t get into details about why I don’t like him, lets just say he is an asshole, but the one thing I’m going to write is his one child is such a brat. This kid, who is 9 years old, was yelling at his father to give him alcohol. This kid wouldn’t shut up about it until my boyfriend said you can have alcohol when I throw it up, see what it does to you. The kid didn’t speak of it again and thankfully for that. By the end of the night I wanted to punch my uncle so I left to my boyfriend’s house.

Dec 26th, 2014 – Today is the worst day when it comes to Christmas days. Not because the malls are packed but because I have to go back to my dads to see my step-mums side of the family. My step-mum has been around for about 5 years now, the family still doesn’t talk to me or anyone else no matter how hard we try. The first time I went to their boxing day dinner was the worst one ever, my sister said she wasn’t going and I went with my boyfriend at the time. You think because it was the first time meeting these people that they would be nice and try talking to us to make us more comfortable, right? Nope I ended up sitting there talking to my boyfriend about how we wanted to leave. Anyways, we pretty much did our own thing, my older step brother brought over my secret Santa gift and told me I was hiding but my bestfriend had just gotten there and I didn’t want her to be eating alone. It’s actually sad but at least it was at my house so I could do whatever I wanted to do. I was really tired so we left around 9 – 10, it was fun seeing my dad again though. In the new year I’m going to make it so I go up to see him at least once a month because it’s not fair we never see each other and I really do need to make a better effort.

That’s pretty much my Christmas madness, how was yours?

I hope everyone had a good one and an even better New Year! See you in 2015!

Valentines Day

Well it’s that time of the year again when all the singles bitch and complain that they are so alone on this one “special” day, when really it is the most stupid day of the year.

Now most of you reading this are probably thinking that, oh here’s just another single girl bitching like I said up above, you’re wrong. I actually have a boyfriend. I’ve been with him for a year and a bit but I still have this stupid non-holiday. My boyfriend is all for it where as I’m the one telling him that we are not doing anything and we’re not getting each other gifts. He of course didn’t listen and got me something so I felt bad and got him something. Even though I hate this day I will participate because I know he will love doing something small for me, that’s just the way he is.

I however went big with his gift because he completely deserves it. I am not saying what it is just in case he has one of these are actually knows what my URL is.

He told me that he ordered my gift, now that can be a number of things and I’m actually so nervous as to what he got me. We are not actually doing Valentines Day on the 14th, we are actually doing it on the 16th because he works; this is okay with me.

Now back to the ranting.

I do not know why this day has to be the one day that boys and girls have to be nice to the person they like. Why does this one day have to be the day that you get your boyfriend or girlfriend a gift or treat them to something nice? I would much rather get a surprise gift for no good reason then get a gift on Valentines day.

I mean everyday should be they day that you do something nice for your other half! When my boyfriend got me flowers for finally finishing high school I was so damn happy, but knowing that I’m going to get them on that day isn’t going to be as much fun.

Now guys, I know you’re thinking that it’s actually so hard to buy girls something because maybe you don’t know them that well and you want to get to know them, flowers is the best gift on a random day. I know girls will say, “Oh I hate flowers, they die, they’re so stupid.” Guess what, she’s lying. Girls love that shit, they eat it up and this is coming from a girl. And to be honest, cheesy is better in my opinion. A simple little love letter of what you care about that person or you’re favourite things about them is honestly the best thing, you can keep those things forever!

I’m just a big cheese ball though and I know my boyfriend is the same way even though we don’t look it. I mean we eat crap food, watch sports and he farts on me all the time but that’s just us. We are honestly the weird couple that everyone hates because of how close we are to each other.

Now girls, guys are actually really hard to buy for, but most guy I think just don’t really give a shit about gifts and they just want to be with you, have sex and just relax like it’s any other day. This I also know what my boyfriend would want, but my boyfriend just loves to make me happy and make me feel special.

Both men and females, if the person really cares about you, it’s not the gift that matters it’s just being able to spend that time together is what matters.

So this Valentines day, relax at home, get naked, have amazing sex and watch a horror movie.